[server] Support DROP COLUMN schema evolution

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Description

Subissue of #1154.

Support ALTER TABLE ... DROP COLUMN schema evolution.

• Follow-ups (not in this scope):
  • Lake catalog DROP COLUMN (Iceberg / Paimon)
  • Spark connector ALTER DDL

Willingness to contribute

• I'm willing to submit a PR!