ParanoidBoolean causes issues with belongs_to Relationships

[pnomolos]

class Car
include DataMapper::Resource
has n, :wheels
property :id, Serial
property :deleted, ParanoidBoolean, :default => false, :lazy => false
end

If :lazy is set to true, Wheel.car will return nil even if a record exists (it even queries the DB successfully).

See https://gist.github.com/1511964 for a fuller use-case

[pnomolos]

To follow up: This only presents with existing records pulled from the datastore. Creating new records will result in correctly formed relationships.