build: update aspect_rules_js to 3.0.2

[alan-agius4]

This updates the major version of aspect_rules_js.

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[josephperrott]

LGTM

[gemini-code-assist]

Code Review

This pull request updates aspect_rules_js to version 3.0.2, a new major version. The changes include updating Bazel dependencies in MODULE.bazel, replacing the deprecated aspect_bazel_lib with bazel_lib and jq.bzl, and adjusting various build files and scripts to be compatible with the new version. Notably, environment variable checks for Bazel's runfiles directory have been updated, and ng-packagr resolution has been made more robust. Test assets have also been refactored. The changes appear to be a correct and complete migration to the new dependency version.

[alan-agius4]

This PR was merged into the repository. The changes were merged into the following branches:

• 21.2.x: 3af71f9