fix: sync TanStack Query data edits to device

[V3RON]

Summary

• add a dedicated SET_QUERY_DATA devtools action so query data edits from the TanStack Query panel are sent back to the device
• instrument panel-side query data edit paths while bypassing remote hydration updates, so synced device state does not echo back into the bridge
• add focused coverage for the new edit-sync path and keep existing loading/error devtools actions working

Validation

• ran focused Vitest coverage for query-data-sync.test.ts and tanstack-query-agent.test.ts in the original workspace where dependencies were installed
• built @rozenite/tanstack-query-plugin successfully in the original workspace with pnpm run build