Catch node failures in ci

[mcbarton]

When we was experimenting with reducing the initial memory when creating the xeus-cpp tests, the node tests failed to run, but the ci didn't catch it and fail (see https://github.com/compiler-research/xeus-cpp/actions/runs/21941897688/job/63369501220#step:5:182). This PR will attempt to catch these failures, and once they are caught the cmake change will be reverted.

[mcbarton]

Node failures now being caught with set -e (see https://github.com/compiler-research/xeus-cpp/actions/runs/22093639488/job/63844922991?pr=446#step:5:183)

[codecov-commenter]

Codecov Report

✅ All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests.
✅ Project coverage is 81.94%. Comparing base (d5dfb61) to head (4256df6).

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