chore(nox): chore update noxfile with format session that uses ruff

[chalmerlowe]

Partial fix for #16014

Provides the following update to multiple noxfiles:

• Adds a version number for ruff
• Adds OR edits a format nox session to use ruff for formatting
• Formats the edited noxfiles.

What it does NOT do:

This is not a universal panacea... it is purposefully kept lean and focuses on a single task.
It does not delete black versions, it does not delete isort versions, etc.

[gemini-code-assist]

Code Review

This pull request replaces isort and black with ruff for code formatting and import sorting across multiple packages. The review identifies several issues, including missing tool installations, missing session implementations, and the use of undefined variables. It also recommends removing redundant formatting sessions, restoring type hints, and refactoring duplicated path lists to improve maintainability.

[chalmerlowe]

Unit test failures are in sqlalchemy-spanner.
No changes introduced in this PR should cause the unit tests to fail. I believe this is an unrelated issue that is out of scope for this update.