Update dependencies and use workspace dependencies

[SolidTux]

This updates the dependencies. To simplify this and clean up the workspace, I moved the common dependencies to the workspace to avoid version mismatches.

The code adaptations are in separate commits, in case some of them are wrong or not wanted.

Currently missing because I don't know how to adapt to the breaking changes:

• zip: this removed start_file_aligned and I couldn't find where the functionality is now
• quick-xml: this broke the serialization of the struct variants in Capabilities

[MarijnS95]

Bumping semver compatible versions doesn't serve us anything except annoy anyone who's building with -Zminimal-versions to use newer crates (potentially with higher MSRV). Don't blatantly bump random patch/minor versions without understanding what this means. I'd rather see a patch that lowers versions and installs a cargo +nightly -Zminimal-versions generate-lockfile && cargo check in CI to ensure that our minimum bound is always adequate.

The code adaptations are in separate commits, in case some of them are wrong or not wanted.

It's hard to read because some are separated, but others are bundled in "some dependency updates" commit. I'd rather see separate PRs for individual breaking dependency upgrades that require code changes, commits won't - intentionally - persist after a squash-merge.

[SolidTux]

Ok, will do that!